It’s giving identity crisis and Ruth Abokoku

And to the Olodo mentioning choice, the act of choosing is not directly related to complete agency of making said choice, meaning a lot of “choices”, are simply consequences of years and years of patriarchal values that have been instilled into us since our childhood.

I don’t have time to educate you. Pick up a book.

@TheIfunanya See eh! It baffles me Me that is not planning to even take surname 😂

@ugonna_t It’s so confusing to me and it’s popular now mostly among women in their 30s-40s. Women our mothers age didn’t really do it so I’m always like

@TheIfunanya it annoys me so muchhhh lmao.

@justdeola_ I thought it was just me 😭

@TheIfunanya Lol yes

@princessashinze Can never make sense to me

@TheIfunanya They like to overdo as if say na them go first marry. Awon Ruth

@TheIfunanya 😂😂😂

@TheIfunanya Why not ? The need to erase your entire identity to self, in marriage and in society is crucial to be considered a “happy woman.”

@femi_areola Literally so wild to me 😭

@TheIfunanya Like

@TheIfunanya Lmao

@TheIfunanya I find it weird like, what are you gonna adopt next? His date of birth?

@TheIfunanya I've always hated this practise,but mehn,everybody should do the one that makes them happy,but me,I love my middle name too much to throw it away