@Wizarab10
The problem is what the woman that stepped out not with the man that's doing mekwe in love. You can never be that best in the world at anything, someone somewhere will do it better than you, that's why we should be contended in our marriage.
This is why many relationship suffer, no matter how strong the love is. While you're doing everything with love, once she steps out and somebody pounds the living day light out of her, it will never remain the same.
Nobody makes love to another man's babe. You devour her raw!
@OlawumiPK
@Wizarab10
This is the reality bro. The woman who chooses to cheat on her partner is actually the problem. A person can't be excellent at everything.
@OlawumiPK
@Wizarab10
Solid point. This is why I disagree with men that teach other guys to do something that would prevent her from cheating. You can't! She either chooses to do it or not.
@OlawumiPK
@Wizarab10
This reminds me of what a mentor calls "the performance based love mindset" which is basically a man saying, if I "perform" for her (knacks, money etc.) she'll in turn give me the love and sex I want.
The nexus here is men thinking they can do something to control her desire.
@OlawumiPK
@Wizarab10
Contentment is key. There is someone else who is more handsome, loving, wealthy, sexy, got it all than your partner. How many do you want to switch to? Thats why communication is fundamental in all relationships, so if you need to try new things you can both discuss it & agree.
@OlawumiPK
@Wizarab10
Its even not about doing it better ,its most likely the thrill of the steal, that's why when caught the man loses interest immediately.