I got into a heated argument with my wife a few years ago. It was a bad one. We almost never fight or argue about anything. She went to her mother's and i went on a drive to chill out. I ended up at a nursery and got her two grape vines for our garden area. When she came home I…
@Nuclearpast
The casual mention of "after the house burned down" makes me wonder if there was another argument after years of bottling up anger that burst out and led someone to "torch " the house.
@Nuclearpast
That’s a grape idea. An ex of mine had a grandpa that told me he would keep ice cream money in his car so when he and his wife would get into it he’d go get her some ice cream and she’d be happy again. Do you remember what kind of grapes they are? I’m wanting to get razzmatazz.
@Will_D_Fi
Idon't. It was two different types. Before I had a lot of chaos happen I had them labeled in the garden area so I wouldn't forget and I had them wrote down in a notebook in the house. All gone now. But not the vines. They're still going.
@Nuclearpast
Every old married couple has that one fight. The fight where you both must choose to keep it going or not. If you both stay, that's the beginning of the real marriage. That's the lifelong marriage. And it gets so much better from there.
@Nuclearpast
It takes 3 years for grapes to establish their roots. It’s a testament of the strength of your relationship that they not only survived the fire but they re-established their root afterwards.