@MySystolic
I would have asked them that question! Also, crying is totally ok. Sometimes that vulnerability is a stress relief and wake up call to them.
@MySystolic
sincerely, having met some women ob-gyns who should be working in a dungeon because they get paid to be sadists there. If you are not them, you are already way ahead of so many horrible white woman ob-gyns I have seen, one who removed my IUD without knowledge or consent.