I need women to normalise asking for consent before touching women they aren’t on such terms with. I’ve had women playfully smack or grab my butt and get offended when I correct them on it because they think it’s okay to do because they are women. No it isn’t okay.
@MsNwangwa
One particular lady like this. I had to tell her to stop. I couldn't take all the touching anymore. Touching my boobs especially.
She stopped after I told her, I'm grateful for that.
She later told me she's bisexual and foudn me attractive.
I just weak.
@MsNwangwa
The thing about these kind of women you mentioned is they also think they don't need consent to touch a man.
If he complains he's gaslit,mocked, dismissed or they imply he swings the other way.
How dare he not like being touched by woman.
Zero respect for anyone's boundaries
@MsNwangwa
@madamkeji
Yeah this. I've had a girl playfully grab my boobs before. I didn't even know how to react. Just laughed it off bc at least it was another girl
@MsNwangwa
@mslami_ay
Everytime I ask a woman( even the ones I am familiar with) if I could touch their hair or any part of their body, they laugh and wonder why I am asking, I let them know I need to ask for consent, consent is not only for sex. (Also the boob/butt grab thing annoys me)
@MsNwangwa
Very valid, years back I was at a party and a woman I didn't know (who was also in the party) smacked my bum because she needed to draw my attention to something. That singular act annoyed me till I left the event, infact it ruined my mood that day.
@MsNwangwa
Ion even like physical contact
My friends knows me well
You can't just touch me unnecessarily,my arms,back anything
I'll snap at you
Not to talk of strangers 😏
@MsNwangwa
The biggest irk is the women that touch your hair, ikyk my hair is full why are you running your hand in it we are not even friends fgs 🤦🏾♀️
@MsNwangwa
I was in the market the other&passed by a lady having her hair threaded. I proceeded to ask her if I could feel/touch(to see if the root is not tight incase I decide to make mine). The stylist said I could 🙄...I asked the girl again o. She said sure.
Asked cos I don't like it
@MsNwangwa
Or when I'm making my hair in the salon and someone just passes by and touches my hair or head, in the name of admiring it. I f**king hate that thing
@MsNwangwa
Facts! I ALWAYS respect another woman's (person's) space. Period.
It can be creepy/inappropriate just as well. I'm generally timid tho, so I assume ppl are protective of their space and selves similarly.
@MsNwangwa
This! I had to hold myself back when this woman at work touched my jacket, rubbing all on my arm, feeling the material because "Oh I like this."