Also, mutual compromise is a thing. Both of you can go slow in your careers, pool your resources and take care of your home together. This idea that women have to give up so much and that men have to provide all the financial resources would never make sense to me.
@MsNwangwa
This is so well put. Compromise is inevitable in any relationship but I am not comfortable with how much of the burden of compromise is placed on women. It helps if you can both figure out a mutual agreement that doesn't unfairly neglect one party