@The_JaneGrey
@HouseOfDouleur
The way she speaks and the words she chooses are a big one. I enjoy a domme with a cruel side, but not one who appears lacking control. I see it as a red flag when their only marketing strategy relies on extreme verbal abuse.
What is the deciding factor for you to apply to serve a particular professional Dominatrix over another? Is there one particular thing you look for or is it a general sense of who She is?
@MomoLatex
@HouseOfDouleur
Choosing the correct language in the moment is absolutely key (ask any playwright!) particularly focusing on the subβs triggers and desires. Showing dominance without raising oneβs voice is good, but raising it possibly when unexpected can prove extremely fun..