Why the hell was he sexualizing a child?

@ask_aubry 🚩🚩🚩 Yes you are the AH & a creepy one at that. Why sexualize a 7 year old & why be embarrassed unless there were some inappropriate thoughts there. Kids are kids, normal people aren't sneaking a peek at their underwear. Also for her to say stop, this had to be a more intense…

@TommyLavinTST @ask_aubry First off, the puppy of a child comment, ew. Second, she's 7... He needs to take some time to figure out what he was doing looking, what he was so embarrassed about, & why he felt it was appropriate for him to have that conversation instead of maybe discussing it with his sibling

@OccamsPhi @ask_aubry Yeah the puppy comment really bothered me as well. And I agree, if he felt that strongly about it in an innocent "I'm trying to help" way he should have talked to his brother & wife so they could have an age appropriate conversation (if one was even needed).

@TommyLavinTST @OccamsPhi @ask_aubry I think he was embarrassed by his own thoughts and instead of taking responsibility, he blamed her for those thoughts. Whatever he said caused her to feel ashamed and afraid. And it was entirely unnecessary because he should have been managing his own feelings like an adult.

@LissaJStrange @TommyLavinTST @ask_aubry I think you really nailed it. He reached strongly to his inappropriate thoughts, it caused a reaction, and he took it out on her. I also think he said more than he's admitting to.

@LissaJStrange @OccamsPhi @TommyLavinTST @ask_aubry Exactly, if I told my 7 yo niece her underwear was showing she would not have that reaction…the whole ‘having a talk’ thing is too many words and too much of a bad reaction for them not to have been way way beyond that

@Ghosty02772504 @OccamsPhi @TommyLavinTST @ask_aubry That’s going to be a core memory for that child. Poor kid. Girls should never be made to believe that their bodies are responsible for the thoughts and actions of men and boys.