The new style of gaslighting is hilarious because a man saying that he approaches a situation cautiously ≠ all men are violent and you fear them.
The direct modifier in this whole situation is family vs stranger woman and for some reason y’all refuse to acknowledge that lol
the fact that y’all assume it would be risking your life to deescalate another male abusing a woman in your direct vicinity suggests that y’all believe all men are extremely violent & you fear them. so then at least you all agree women are not safe with men.