Finances should be in order so y’all can do things without the worry of not having enough. Like i know me, and i know i like to go out on dates and give, whether it’s a gift(s) or flowers. If i can’t do that then i shouldn’t be pursuing a woman

Life issues and past endeavors as well due to the fact that we all go through life. Sometimes it’s tougher on others but i personally don’t wanna add stress to her life when i want to take stresses away. Past endeavors should be an obvious one though. No one wants baggage.

And this is just a personal opinion. Not saying you can’t pursue something with the first two going on but making it easier for yourself, re-evaluate and then go for it.