@BoomerNA You guys are chronically online. These are not things you ask out of the blue.

@MaestrosCaliber If you’re too insecure and scared of rejection to ask that simple question then you shouldn’t be doing those things in the first place lil bro

@BoomerNA He sure can yap alot, but for some reason those three words are just too much for him

@BoomerNA EXACTLY!!! Consent is not an old timey ritual, it’s something that needs to be understood and shared and said. “Can I do this? Can I..” Consent is more important than a shitty “apology” for afterwards.

@BoomerNA BOOMER SAY THIS LOUDER MY GUY

@BoomerNA SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE ON THE BACK THAT ARE NOT GETTING IT

@BoomerNA like that's the thing that bothers me SO much! silence is not consent! laughing abt it is not consent! you can get uncomfortable when someone touches you, laughing could be a response to keep safe/sane. if there was no verbal yes, you don't have consent.

@BoomerNA @tobyunreal He said he asked multiple times and she said Yh

@BoomerNA Also “how old are you” is 4 words. No excuse for not asking these questions because it’s BASIC HUMAN DECENCY

@BoomerNA Lmao, my favorites are asking, "Are we good or nah?" Or "this cool or nah?" Mainly because I don't do social cues and body language. You gotta tell me, or else I'm the one getting uncomfortable.

@BoomerNA thank u for being normal, and supporting the victims during this time!!

@BoomerNA literally??? like i ask people before i hug them?? before i hold hands with them?? before high fives? sitting near them?? it’s not hard?? at all??? and i check in during too????

@BoomerNA no cz literally like it takes not even a split second to ask if someones okay w u touching them .. esp w a person u barely know. On top of that it takes 4 words to ask "how old are you" like.. especially when you're going to have sexual acts w the person at least ask 4 their age.

@BoomerNA but she’s the one who kept coming back to sit next to him??? like huh?

@BoomerNA I have a twin brother that’s like this with everyone; friend, stranger, partner, etc. Some people will be quick to say he doesn’t have to ask but appreciate him nonetheless for it. It’s literally common courtesy to ask instead of assuming and just doing

@BoomerNA Literally!!! Even my own boyfriend still asks me for consent in these ways. ITS NOT THAT HARD!!!!

@BoomerNA I do agree with this. Verbal communication was needed especially as they had just met. However I do believe him that he thought he had her consent from her actions. A harsh lesson for him and a learning moment for a lot of guys out there. Consent is everything!

@BoomerNA Thanks for the (what should be) common decency. As someone who had a first boyfriend that just steamrolled past anything but a solid no (like: can we not do this right now, i dont know if this is a good idea and constantly trying to physically deescalate), it's much appreciated🫶